When My Mood Swings

When my mood swings, nothing will be fine
Cause they don't know the line between wrong and right
They'll make me do things all day till night
Which I'm gonna regret all my life.

But still I will do whatever my dear mood says
I'll push away common sense if it comes down my way
"Why are you doing this stupidity?" if somebody asks
I'll simply reply "I love guilty pleasure tasks!"

So without wasting too much of time,
I started making a mountain out of molehill,
The issues that I've forgotten long ago
Suddenly started to matter me!

Tears started to roll down my eyes
For a reason only God knows why?
Fitting in the tag for Damsel in distress
I myself contribute in building up the stress.

I shouted, I screamed, I ate a lot
And always believe "I'm not gonna regret this at all"
But when the whirl wind of common sense knocked me bad
Regrets, regrets and fat is all I had!


"This damage is beyond repair" when shouted my brain
"It still can be restored again" whispered by faith
So holding the hands of some lovely people
I decide to get up and improve my situation.

Things won't be the same I know
Neither it will be easy as it was till day
But as long as you're not a slave of your moods,
You're ready for anything, anytime on any day!



 

Why so Angry Homo Sapiens?

Hello everyone! How are you guys? Hope you all are doing fine. May the Almighty give you the grace to deal your problems more wisely. Yes by wisely I meant using that so called common sense instead of being aggressive.

Personally I am not a big fan of Anger. If someone shouts at me, I feel terrible. And imagine the pain if that someone is the person I love. I am sure the same happens with everyone. Even though you didn’t drop a tear outside, you have already died a thousand times inside. However anger was not taken very seriously until in recent years when people started taking lives of other person because they lost temper. Yes, I am not at all kidding. Check out the sites given below and read out this horror story yourself.

Angry Delhi: How city makes mountain out of molehill, draws blood for nothing

Sad, isn’t it? We will never know the depth of a problem as long as some humans doesn’t loose their life. This reports are just few examples. Who knows how many such reports went unnoticed. People would think twice before disagreeing because who knows whether they will be alive to say next sentence 😐
To be honest, I don’t think its just a Delhi problem. Anger is everywhere in different forms. I am just trying to point out it by giving example of my city. It breaks my heart to admit the fact that in my city a petty disagreement with almost anyone can land me into a big trouble. Dama
So in today’s post, let’s relish our memories about anger. What is anger, according to you? According to me, its a sudden outburst of emotions which gives a temporary relief and lifelong regret. If you agree with me, we are on the same page, YAY!Β  If you want to add something more in my definition, please use comment box. Thank you! Now some facts about anger: –

1. The damage caused by anger is too much than we think: I am sure the makers of Hydrogen bomb blasted in Hiroshima and Nagasaki would have never thought it will have such big impact. Did they ever slept peacefully? Have they ever thought how will they recreate the destroyed…. Now imagine yourself in their place. Throwing anger like bombs and in process hurting a lot of people. It’s horrible.

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2. When in anger, we cross the line between the right and the wrong: The dominant anger will blindfold your brain, manipulate your heart. In short, your common sense will stop working. The person you will find right is you yourself and by the time you’ll understand your mistake, it will be too late.

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3. It causes a lot of damage to yourself: It affects your health. Increase in blood pressure, risk of heart diseases, stress, depression, loosing the people who care about you… I don’t think I need to say more?

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So what can we do?
Simple. Whenever I get angry, I start taking deep breaths for… 5 seconds and the next moment I am back to normal. I know it sounds so stupid and lame. But it is so true and effective. You guys should try this too! Or share your little tricks to keep your anger at bay. The other thing we can do I observe. Look around you. Do you know anyone who looses temper easily. That may be the person you love most (yes even you yourself). Talk to your elders about this or get professional/medical help.
The last but not the least, spread the word! Let everyone know what a small anger outburst can cost us.Β  So please like 😊 comment 😁 share πŸ˜‡ follow πŸ˜‰

Catch you all soon. Next week!

The Revengers, Alert!

First of all, I want to apologize to all my readers for not posting for about almost a month and assure you this won’t happen again ever. Still not feeling better? Maybe my cute pic will make you feel better

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Feel better?The biggest similarity between this pic and my pic is the fact both are incredibly adorable. Only problem is that I’m self declared adorable and this puppies are World declared adorable :’D

Well then, let’s get started. With another Real topic. A club started by “God knows who” to destroy one’s life. The club that is manipulating people to believe that they can make situation better. Unfortunately many of us are the members of this club? Check this out and witness the terror yourself!


How are you all feeling? Are you sad? Are you unhappy? Did someone break your tiny winy ego? Do want you teach them a lesson? Want them to taste their own medicine? Of all the ways you can do it, the best way to take revenge is by joining

The Revengers Club

Motto of the club: Vengeance! Revenge! Tit for tat! Eye for an eye! Tooth for a tooth!

Criteria:

  • Member should not be smart or be around smart people
  • Member should have a bad temper
  • Member should never use his/her common sense (In case if they have one)

Benefits of Joining The Revengers Club

  1. No membership charges: Yes Guys, its FREE FREE FREE! Anyone can be the member but no one can leave this club.

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2. What will you gain: Lots of Stress, dissatisfaction, turmoil in life, weight and lots of interesting stuffs*. You will keeping feeding yourself with other’s sorrows but this club will make sure that you’re never satisfied and your life gets F**ked up

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3. What will you loose: Peace, happiness, love, family, friends and other unnecessary evils

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*Terms and conditions apply
Karma is not in our control. So don’t blame us if anything happens to you in process.

I don’t know what to see.Β  Homo sapiens (human beings) are those organisms in the earth who know the difference between right and wrong and yet choose wrong because they refuse to think! The above given ad about the revenge is not something we don’t know. Its just that we want to hurt someone because they hurt our tiny winy ego. Now listen carefully :

  • Revenge sounds sweet, but it isn’t so: While seeking revenge, a person refuses to use their common sense and instead wastes their precious time in plotting a plan against the other person. While seeking revenge, a person becomes manipulative,Β  stupid and emotion less. And when I say emotion less, that means the person is dead inside.

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  • Being the Avenger is not so cool in real life: (I love Marvel but right now I’m not talking about that!) Fighting evil with equivalent evil act does not justify you. Seeking to repay the lose done to you ultimately makes you no better than the one against whom you’re taking vengeance.

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  • Revenge makes situation worse: Revenge is so powerful that it can steal your peace, happiness, love and meaning of life. It will make you empty inside. You will not understand what is to be around the loved ones. Hurting others can never make anyone happy. And if a person says he does it to satisfy himself, he’s lying.

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  • Even after taking revenge, you’ll be dissatisfied: How many of you can lie me that you took revenge and you felt really great. You finally tortured someone and that was the best moment of your life. You can lie to me but you can’t lie to yourself. Revenge is dissatisfaction is disguise. Its fruitless, tasteless and futile. Waste of your precious time which ends up making you dead inside.

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Guys, we should stop this. Stop being the revenge seekers. And if you know anyone who is seeking revenge stop them as soon as possible! Catch you next Sunday with another catchy topic. Until then take care and do what I told you, PLEASE! Thank you!

(And I will appreciate some great comments and lot of likes. Anyway, chillax cause I won’t try to seek revenge πŸ˜€ )

The Negative Vibes…

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Today, in our Apartment whatsapp group (I don’t know how to explain this. Just use yur imagination) Mr Dyeria, forwarded a joke. Well he always does but today’s joke was different. As soon as, he sent the message, other person replied “Ha! Purana Hai! (Ha! Old one!)”. The most annoying Mr Dyeria was annoyed by another annoying person, His son, Johndizz, lol. And everyone started making fun of his father. So Mr Dyeria replied “Haan, toh kya hua? Teri maa bhi toh puraani hai, tu uski baatein sunn sakta hai, toh mere joke enjoy kyun nahi kar sakta? (Yeah, so what? Your mom is old too and you still listen to her, then why can’t you enjoy my joke?)” And then Mrs Dyeria started typing. Now I know this is not apartment whatsapp group but more like “Dyeria Family Group” so I quit the group to avoid drama.

I know Mr Dyeria is the most irritating person I’ve ever met and I would never leave a chance to insult him, but this time I did. Yes, I decided to empathize him. I also believe that just because he repeated a forwarded joke, there was nothing wrong in his intentions. He just wanted to make people laugh. Throughout my life, I’ve realized that its very easy to point out mistakes, but at the same time very difficult to point out the positive traits. Now I believe in optimistic approach and discarded pessimistic attitude few years ago (Do I sound like telly shopping over acting models?). I do admit, sometimes I am pessimist, but mostly I try my best to be positive. And I think everyone should have a optimistic approach to life. And here are my reasons:-

  1. Optimism promotes positivity: We don’t know what’s in the store for tomorrow. The attitude of being an optimist helps us to expect positive results and helps in building resilience at the time of challenges. This helps the person to welcome any kind of unexpected change hence creating a positive anticipation of future.

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2. Optimism promotes productivity: It upgrades our various skills in order to fight life adversities. Optimism enhances patience. It increases your tolerance levels because it lowers the risk of you being irritated by little things. An optimist is a very approachable person. Admit it or not, you will never seek advice from a person who always thinks negative.

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3. Optimism is good for the person oneself: A person will never change until they themselves realize they need to. An optimist person has control over their emotions. They have self respect, self confidence and self esteem. They are humble, happy, satisfied and thankful to their life. It promotes bonding between different individuals. AΒ  Harvard School of Public Health study found that People who tend to look on the bright side have fewer heart problems, such as cardiovascular disease. They also have better cholesterol readings: In a separate survey of nearly 1,000 middle aged men and women, those who reported higher levels of optimism had lower levels of triglycerides, or less fat in the blood. In short, optimism promotes physical, mental and social well being!

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4. World needs more Optimists: Our world already have too many problems to deal with like people killing people, global warming, friends betraying friends, deforestation etc. Its painful to be a pessimist in this already dull world. So be the person who makes someone smile. Promise yourself to not be the killer of hope but be that ray of hope. To be the ray of hope in this world of Despair. A perfect example of pessimistic attitude is fat shaming. Psychologists have done a lot of research on this, and the evidence is very clear Fat shaming DOES NOT motivate people, but makes them feel terrible about themselves and actually causes them to eat more and gain more weight.

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Thank you guys for reading. Don’t forget to share your opinions, like and share this blog! Have a great week ahead. Hereby sharing one of my favorite quote by none other than Martin Luther King Jr

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The Act of Swearing

Hello everyone! Hope you all had a great last week. Mine was amazing though πŸ˜‰

Swearing in today’s world is not a big deal. Everybody will be like “Duh, everyone swears!” Not everyone does! At least I don’t. And I know many of you don’t too. Good. To be honest, I am surrounded with people who swear and try to act cool when they swear. In fact, one of my friend can string the swears rhyming together with a smooth sounding flow……Β  which leaves the listener wanting for more… lol no way πŸ˜€

So today I will share my opinions about Swearing

  1. Benefits of Swearing: YES! You read it right! Swearing has benefits. When my friend told me I thought it was rubbish until I searched it in google. One study showed people who swear have a larger vocabulary than others. Another group of researchers has claimed swearing is a harmless emotional release which could make you feel stronger. So the more you swear, you will free better inside πŸ˜‰

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2. It doesn’t resolve the issue though: I have witnessed many fights which get started due to swears and even ending up in killing each other. Hence no matter which high qualified cursing you use, it will not help you to resolve the issue anyway. Moreover, no matter whose fault it is, if you are using too much cussing, you’ll be automatically judged as the “Bad person”

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3. It becomes part of your life intentionally or unintentionally: Imagine the scenario: You are in your home with your family, when your mom asks whether you want ice cream and you scream “F***ing yeah, I love ice cream!” Ew, isn’t it? “It just happened and not my fault” you may think it but remember, its the release of emotion from your mouth which made you feel better but left others uncomfortable

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4. People think it makes them look cool: Does it really? My best friend who I mentioned earlier having amazing talent of swear, I love her because she is such a sweet heart, so caring, honest, loyal person I am ever gonna meet and not because she was looking cool while swearing lol. Yes, I do want her to use it as minimally as possible and she understands me and trying her best. I don’t find swearing offensive at all! You know what is more offensive? Cheating, back stabbing, lying, and giving false hopes….

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So what do I conclude from this topic? Yes, you can swear but remember it will not resolve the issue and ends up becoming a habit. A cute information about me: I do swear but it’s not technically swear. Swearing means use of offensive language. The words that I use are not OFFENSIVE. I have listed down the examples for your better understanding. The underlined words are “My so called offensive words”

  1. You’re such a momos.
  2. Why are you acting like a bobos

Yes they are not the swear words exactly but are zero percent offensive and more fun πŸ˜‰

Have a great week ahead! Share your thoughts in comment box na ddon’t forget to like and share!

What Makes You Beautiful

 

Does title remind me something? Oh yes it did!

Recently while talking to my friend, she revealed me that she is going to meet her boyfriend and wants to make this meet ‘special’. Personally, I never had a relationship but I don’t know how but I am quite good at ‘Romantic Counseling’. With a confident smirk plastered in my face and straightened myself, ready to give her another round of Romantic Counseling when she asked me “Suggest me a dress that will make me look more pretty”.

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I was dumbstruck. I never ever thought an intelligent woman like her will ever think that its a dress that makes everyone pretty. As her best friend, I decided to knock some sense in her otherwise active brain. Since the Cannes Festival was the latest thing I can think of, I asked her to choose “Best Dressed Celebrity” according to her. My friend chose Aishwarya Rai Bachchan

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Now I asked her to just imagine this same gown hanging by just a hanger. Will it still look as pretty as it is looking right now on Aishwarya. And the flushed look on my friend’s face indicated that she has realized her mistake. But before she starts the “Sorry Drama” I decided to share my handy fashion and style tips:-

  1. Experimenting: I may have no idea how I became a good romantic counselor but I know how I know how I became the fashion and style expert of my college πŸ˜‰ Though let me reveal this to you: The journey was not at all easy. I, a mere human girl have also made fashion blunders that left many with lol or rofl. But as I mentioned in my last post, I learned from my mistakes! I insist everyone should experiment with their looks not for others but for Yourself. Always try something new and different. It may or may not impress others, but it feels SO GOOD! Its like you’re pampering yourself, knowing yourself. Its an amazing feeling which I don’t know how to verbalize!

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2. Your comfort zone: Yeah, I told you to experiment. But being comfortable is also a very important priority. Make sure whenever you wear anything it should not be too tight or too loose. Make sure that you are comfortable with the items that you choose to wear because when you feel great, you look great! It even boosts your confidence. When you feel uncomfortable in your clothes, it shows. No matter how beautiful your dress is if you are uneasy in it, you will not feel glamorous. You will look worried too. And remember, you will not have fun if you keep on thinking that there is something wrong with how you look.

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3. Do what you love: Don’t be blinded by brands.One of the things that I dislike about my brother is his obsession with Brands. He only buys branded clothes as he believes branded things have quality which I don’t believe entirely. Yes, I do appreciate brands but I will buy and wear whatever I love. They may not be necessarily part of popular brands as well as expensive but they make me feel amazing.
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4. Last but not the least, it all depends upon YOU: At last, what matters is how YOU carry your outfit i.e your confidence, boldness, fearlessness and love for yourself! Remember, no clothes, no make up, no hair style will make you beautiful until and unless you feel it… Inside ❀
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Now as a way to know how much my friend understood my tips, I will be taking her for shopping and she will select her clothes herself while I myself buy some clothes. I don’t have anything to wear, Duh! Take care everyone, catch you next sunday! Don’t forget to like, comment and share!
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What is Failure?

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It was a cool Saturday morning. I was sipping my green tea and quite lost in my lovely thoughts until unwillingly rescued to the present by the unpleasant voice of Mr Dyeria asking “Hello! How you doing?”. With a fake smile plastered in my face I was dying to reply “Hey, I was doing just fine before I met you” but ended up saying “Great! What about you?”. He sighed and replied that he is very sad, something I didn’t believe until he revealed the real reason. JohnDiz, His son, failed an admission exam of a well reputed college. He has just failed one exam and already tagged as a ‘Failure’ by his relatives and even his parents. With a deep conversation with him, I realized depth of his fear for failure.

After the conversation, when i got back into the room, I recalled that they are not the only people who fret failure. I remembered the time when I was in same situation as JohnDiz and suddenly every stranger in the street was concerned about my future and giving their precious advice like “Study Harder! Stop watching T.V! Don’t waste your time listening music! Forget to sleep, keep studying day and night! Eat almonds two times a day! Don’t eat junk food! etc“. I was living model of Failure. People pointed at me and warned their children (sometimes in front of me) that if they didn’t study, theyΒ  will become a failure, like me. With all the grace and courage I had, I accepted their judgements. Best of all, I have parents who were disappointed but never stopped believing in me and always there as my strength. And from that day, still now conquering through this journey. I realize how important it is to make everyone realize that Failure is not something avoidable but something everyone will face. So hereby I dedicate my first blog for everyone who like JohnDiz are/were/will be victimized as “Failure” at some point of life (You have my sincere empathy) or like Mr. Dyeria tag others as “Failure” (You all have my deepest sympathies) explaining its importance.

1. Failure is temporary, giving up is permanent:Β  For everyone’s disbelief, when I got admission, my failure was not a matter of concern from everyone. I am not that role model anymore, nobody wasted their time anymore, advising me what should I do to improve my score. So why I am telling you this? To point the fact that just because you failed in your first attempt doesn’t stop you from giving it another try! But at the same time, when we give up on a task, we ourselves are shutting any chances of success and thus it will remain forever as a memento of our failure.

2. Failure brings you closer to success: “Failure is a step closer to success” I never understood what it meant until I experienced it. A failure or a series of Failure like Edison’s 10,000 attempts to create a light bulb, teaches us something and in that learning take us one step closer to success. So if you want success, you HAVE TO embrace failure with same interest.

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3. Failure is Lesson: Failure is fretted so much because it puts us in a uncomfortable situation and showing us something that we don’t want to see- Our FAULTS. It teaches us how to deal with an unfavorable outcome, provides us a chance to know what went wrong subsequently erasing our fear to fail. Hence, it gives us the rewards of courage, experience and positive mindset. Your efforts are not getting wasted!

4. Last but not the least, you’re not a failure as long as you believe in yourself: When I had my encounter with failure, I thought I lost everything but somewhere in my heart I believed that I will get over it. So there will be times when your neighbor, relatives, siblings, parents or even me (I won’t, Duh!) calling you failure it shouldn’t matter. What matters is what do you think about yourself. Its your choice whether want to learn from your mistakes and embrace success or give up and later regret.

Now again mustering all the courage I have, I am going to explain all this to Mr Dyeria. Yeah so have your deepest empathy and sympathies for me and don’t forget to share your thoughts! Catch you soon. Until then, take care Cuppycakes!