Time Management…. True / False?

     From a very young age, we all have been subjected to importance of time and why we shouldn’t waste it. Now a days, ‘Efficient Time Management’ is such a hot topic that no one can resist oneself to ignore it. Well that’s at least my story. I don’t feel proud to admit this but I do waste time and used to think that biggest issue with me is the fact that I don’t manage my time effectively. It took me light years to understand the concept that neither I nor any human being on the earth has the ability to control time. Then how can we accuse others or even ourselves of inefficient time management?


    To keep this short and simple, time is/was/will be always the independent factor. Neither will it wait for anyone nor anyone can stop time. Something that is not in our control cannot be managed. That is why I believe that time management is a lie. Yup, its false! Okay now try to remember those days when you used to make a study time table and always ended up discarding it and making a new one. With the course of time you accept the fact that you can never stick to the time table and hence don’t waste your precious time making one! Ever wondered why?


   While making a time table we consider about the time we have/need. We prioritize time over us! Try to remember if you ever tried to study a topic within one hour without even realizing that topic isn’t as small as it seems or you tried to complete an assignment within one hour but it took three hours to complete it. Therefore, we fail to keep up with our time table because we forget about the dependent factor ~ Our self.


     We definitely can’t control time but we can obviously control our mind and do the work. It was never about managing time instead all about how you wish to spend your time. It is a every day test for all of us to know how discipline and consistent we are to our work. All the successful people we see and all the success stories we hear and read are the result of their consistent efforts to improve themselves and that was not a one day process. It was challenging, uncomfortable yet a worthwhile period of their life who chose to do the work even when they didn’t wanted to and today live the life that many of us like dream.


      We all are getting 24 hours. What we make out of it only depends on us and not on time or amount of work we have. And also embrace the fact that we will frequently fall but your constant perseverance, dedication and attitude towards your commitment will not let the effects of the fall last for long. So instead of asking or searching a perfect solution for time management or watching videos of how to make a time table, ask yourself what to do right now that will help you to manage yourself for the coming time.


   Thank you guys for reading! I just shared my point of view. Please do share your views below in the comment box, like, share and follow me. Thanks again! Catch you all really soon!





What Makes You Beautiful


Does title remind me something? Oh yes it did!

Recently while talking to my friend, she revealed me that she is going to meet her boyfriend and wants to make this meet ‘special’. Personally, I never had a relationship but I don’t know how but I am quite good at ‘Romantic Counseling’. With a confident smirk plastered in my face and straightened myself, ready to give her another round of Romantic Counseling when she asked me “Suggest me a dress that will make me look more pretty”.


I was dumbstruck. I never ever thought an intelligent woman like her will ever think that its a dress that makes everyone pretty. As her best friend, I decided to knock some sense in her otherwise active brain. Since the Cannes Festival was the latest thing I can think of, I asked her to choose “Best Dressed Celebrity” according to her. My friend chose Aishwarya Rai Bachchan


Now I asked her to just imagine this same gown hanging by just a hanger. Will it still look as pretty as it is looking right now on Aishwarya. And the flushed look on my friend’s face indicated that she has realized her mistake. But before she starts the “Sorry Drama” I decided to share my handy fashion and style tips:-

  1. Experimenting: I may have no idea how I became a good romantic counselor but I know how I know how I became the fashion and style expert of my college 😉 Though let me reveal this to you: The journey was not at all easy. I, a mere human girl have also made fashion blunders that left many with lol or rofl. But as I mentioned in my last post, I learned from my mistakes! I insist everyone should experiment with their looks not for others but for Yourself. Always try something new and different. It may or may not impress others, but it feels SO GOOD! Its like you’re pampering yourself, knowing yourself. Its an amazing feeling which I don’t know how to verbalize!


2. Your comfort zone: Yeah, I told you to experiment. But being comfortable is also a very important priority. Make sure whenever you wear anything it should not be too tight or too loose. Make sure that you are comfortable with the items that you choose to wear because when you feel great, you look great! It even boosts your confidence. When you feel uncomfortable in your clothes, it shows. No matter how beautiful your dress is if you are uneasy in it, you will not feel glamorous. You will look worried too. And remember, you will not have fun if you keep on thinking that there is something wrong with how you look.

3. Do what you love: Don’t be blinded by brands.One of the things that I dislike about my brother is his obsession with Brands. He only buys branded clothes as he believes branded things have quality which I don’t believe entirely. Yes, I do appreciate brands but I will buy and wear whatever I love. They may not be necessarily part of popular brands as well as expensive but they make me feel amazing.
4. Last but not the least, it all depends upon YOU: At last, what matters is how YOU carry your outfit i.e your confidence, boldness, fearlessness and love for yourself! Remember, no clothes, no make up, no hair style will make you beautiful until and unless you feel it… Inside ❤
Now as a way to know how much my friend understood my tips, I will be taking her for shopping and she will select her clothes herself while I myself buy some clothes. I don’t have anything to wear, Duh! Take care everyone, catch you next sunday! Don’t forget to like, comment and share!